Help a mama out!

Hey so I was just wondering if anyone in this app can give me tips because im having a issues with my daughter at school she uses three weird sayings for example she said told a 8 grader in the bathroom “are you under wear because I would wear you” but the thing is she understand what she’s saying i get a million phone calls home everyday so. Was just wondering if you guys can help me out I know it might sound silly but it’s sad truth now of days
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I would start by trying to figure out where she’s getting those phrases from. YouTube is always a really good place to limit or review what’s been seen. Maybe tell her that when she says things like that it’s not appropriate and makes people feel uncomfortable or feel sad. She probably does it because it gets a reaction but if it’s not funny to everyone, it’s not a good joke or behavior

@Zahra thank you so much !! and I have tried to tell her but she doesn’t listen🤦‍♀️and it’s just so embarrassing because I have multiple parents a day asking for my kid to stay away from their kid and I tried to explain to her that when she says stuff like this it makes people upset snd it’s not nice but still she choices to ignore me

@Zahra I took her iPad away and I said until you listen to me and dont say stuff like that I will give it back and still choices to not listen like what I’m supposed to do it’s just insane kids these days 🤦‍♂️

@Zahra you can also get her in to therapy sometimes it’s easier to express feelings and thoughts to someone you don’t know or see on a day to day basis also a therapist can get a deeper understanding of why she say things like that

Man YouTube is the worst app there could be for a kid 😩 my daughter use to hang out with another girl and her parents would let her watch TikTok and grown stuff on YouTube and well you can’t do nothing about someone else’s parenting…until my daughter started acting and behaving the same way the little girl did so I had to start pulling the string on my daughter and explain to her that whatever it is her “friend” watches on TikTok/youtube is not appropriate for her and so I slowly pulled her away from her because apparently to her parents there was nothing wrong about it (they never care to educate their kids the grandparents just watch them but nobody teaches them anything good) and now it’s been better but around this age they do everything they see and say everything they hear 🙃

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