Husband wants to watch p*rn with me

So my husband asks me to watch p*rn with him, specifically lesbian, and we did a couple of times and I enjoyed. But now it’s getting to the point he expects it and I can’t force myself when not in the mood…last night he literally refused to have sex with me because he wanted to watch porn and I didn’t. I just can’t believe it. I’m literally anxious of having sex with him, ai don’t enjoy it anymore. What do you all think? Am I overreacting or not?

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Definitely not overreacting! Refusing sex because you wouldn’t watch porn beforehand? That’s VERY strange. Does he maybe not feel like he can’t get it up anymore without watching porn and is lashing out at you instead of talking about it perhaps? That’s literally the only scenario I can think of…..

he acts disappointed if I say I’m not in the mood and if I don’t do it he takes it personally saying “I don’t want him”.

honestly I agree

OMG no!!!! Yuck what a fuckhead

Dopamine Desensitization (Porn-Induced ED) Watching a lot of porn can desensitize the brain to normal levels of arousal, especially in real life situations Over time, the brain may prefer the novelty and stimulation of porn over real intimacy, leading to reduced desire for a partner😬

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