Divorce

My husband gave me an Eid gift of one Talaq.. i am hurt he was the love of my life my everything but i am not sad,i am relieved.

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Assalamualaykum sis I’m sorry to hear of your divorce. But if it brings you peace that is something to look forward to. I sometimes think I want to leave my husband for peace but I love him so so dearly. Can I ask what makes you want to divorce. Mines is the cheating and verbal mental abuse.

same situation here dear. But i can not bear anymore insults love i am 30 years old. Look like 50 years old i am taking depression medications with diabetes i am already struggling to survive dont want anymore stress

I just want to say one thing to you ladies who accept cheating. You can say you love him if he cheats on you but sis you know if he cheats on you he is saying he is okay with k!lll!ng you? He can give you AIDS. My mother died of AIDS when I was 14 yo. My father was HIV+. He can give your future children HIV too. I would never tolerate cheating and you should not either, unless you have su!-side wish

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