Mine was 1 year and six months into the relationship it was a reckless unprotected seg, and we are not working out
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8 years together, very much planned. 13 years together now, our daughter is 5 🙂

8 years into our relationship, where married 10 months, wasn’t planned, did want kids eventually just happened earlier than we’d planned shes 4 now.

Good question

6 years into relationship, not planned and me and her dad are currently having time apart 🙂

About a year and a half into the relationship, gave birth shortly after 2 year anniversary and now pregnant with our second with our 4th year anniversary coming up

4 years into the relationship, planned and we're working well ❤️

8 years in, yes planned and yes our relationship is going strong, now at 10 years. Our daughter is one and a half 🥰

6 months into the relationship (but loosely knew each other through work for a year before).
Now married and expecting our 2nd 💕 together just over 3 years total.

With our fitst, we were together for 4 years, married 1year, (together for 9years now)
Sorry things are not working out for you, but you could still have a good co-parenting relationship

We got pregnant a year to the day from when we met. It was accidental (coil) but it worked out perfectly. Luckily we were planning marriage and kids in the not too distant future, and had already chatted about what we’d do if we had an accident.

Together 5 years
Married 2
Planned
Second time round together 9 years
Married 6
One twin was planned the other was not 😂

5 months in (but we'd dated in school over a decade prior and stayed in contact on/off over the years), sort of planned 😂 we both knew what we wanted and we conceived her after drinking 😂 then sobered up and realised the sensible thing to do was wait a bit, but that was clearly our time and now she's almost 14 months old and we're very much working out, getting married in 2.5 years 🥰

5 years together, got married the 4th year and we planned all our kids. It’s been almost 13 years now and our marriage is stronger than ever.

4 months in

7 years into the relationship. It was 1/2 planned because we made a choice in the moment that I told him would result in a baby and be said “cool”. 🤣
We had already bought our house and were engaged so the baby came a bit earlier than we initially planned but we were very happy. She’s 8 now. ☺️

7 years in and planned

We were dating for 11 months when we found out about our daughter on the way. Unplanned but very excited and very happy to be parents! We’re still together and it’s been 2 years and 2ish months! I think we’re gonna work out but postpartum is rockin our world rn. Our daughter is turning seven months this week!

Officially together less than a year (started actually dating in may started trying in September) we were “friends” for a little more than a year. Planned it. He’s 22 months and it’s working so much we are planning another

We have been together 5 years, married for 3, we started trying on our wedding night and i got pregnant about 2 years later. Our son is almost 5 months now

10 yrs

I personally didn't want kids, he always wanted a family of his own but was happy with whatever my choice was. We both decided we were ready after 6 years of marriage, spent a year becoming physically and mentally ready (did TONS of research on pregnancy and childbirth), started trying shortly after our 7th anniversary, she'll be here for our 8th anniversary! Hubby is so excited and can't wait to hold his baby girl 💕

Less than 2 months 😂 left him before the birth

I wouldn’t be able to make the most life changing decision in my life which is having & raising a child with some1 I didn’t know over wreckless sex. It jus couldn’t be me. So Everything abt my relationship including me deliberately picking out his father, dating with intention, getting married, the conception, the delivery, growing our family everything is/was planned. It was very important to me that if or when I had children, I had to be married so I knew I couldn’t bring a child into this world unless I was married. so I actually didn’t even think I would become a mom or had plans until I actually met the right guy. And if I didn’t find the right man I wud have happily died without experiencing motherhood. cuz it’s very easy to find some1 to have a kid with cuz plenty of ppl can have children cuz having children is the easy part; the real catch is to find some1 worthy of having those kids with. The Husband or man and the quality or type of relationship was wat was important for me.

5 years into the relationship and it was planned, 6 years together now and going stronger after having our daughter

3.5 months in , planned and we’ve been married 3.5 years

4 years into the relationship, 2.5 years into marriage, planned baby

13 years together. House together for 5 years and a dog for 2 years. He didn’t want kids or marriage, I wanted both so we compromised and had a baby but won’t get married. Early days pp was rough for us but now we are back to normal and a pretty strong team

got pregnant 3 months in, it def was not planned lol. got married on our two year anniversary & it’s now been 7 months. still very much in love w him & fall more in love everyday

6 years into our relationship (1 year of marriage), planned and so far so good 😊

Together 6 years before we tried. Together 8 years and married before we tried for our second. Both were planned and we are doing just fine. Still as happy as when we first dated.

Together 2.5 yrs then married 2 yrs before we conceived our first. The next few years were a reeeeeal struggle ngl. Almost broke up when he was 5/6 but then we conceived our daughter who is now 20 months and we’re good again

Got engaged after 1 year, unplanned pregnancy the month after that, currently still married

Less than a year, it was planned. We now have been together almost 7 years, married almost 5 years & have 2 kids together. Our relationship is nowhere near perfect, but we still wake up everyday & choose each other.

Just over 1 year into the relationship. The pregnancy wasn’t planned but we are together 7 years later and I’m now pregnant with our 4th baby 😊

4 years together we’re now on year 5. Year six is coming up in September. We have an almost 5 month old. Definitely not planned she was accidental lol

14 years together when I got pregnant, ttc for 12 years (iui x2 and ivf) still going strong

First got pregnant on our first date (had been dating like a week, this was high school) then got pregnant right after our 1 yr and no it wasn’t planned, on baby #3 and still wasn’t planned
It’s working out alright, every time I’m pregnant with a daughter I can’t stand even hearing him breathe so right now isn’t the time for me to answer that part of the question

Together 4 years when I got pregnant, started trying at 3 years, together 6.5 years and have a 22 month old.

Lol like 12 years haha. And yes planned.

Me and my husband werw together just over a year before getting pregnant (planned) things were great until i got pregnant again 2.5years later (unplanned). We split up when i was 7months pregnant, a few days before our 5th year anniversary, he left me for another woman. We started to have a lot of issues not long before i got pregnant with baby 2.
My current partner, We were together 5months before i got pregnant (unplanned) we have now been together just over a year and baby is a month old. Things are difficult between us but we are strong and work through it.

We were only together for 4 minths when we found out i was pregnantit was not planned, now together over a year with a three 1/2 month old and I couldn't of imagined having my baby woth anyone else. Hes been the perfect partner. We are engaged and im happy to say hes the father of my child and soon be husband

11 years together, Married for 2 years. Very planned

We were together 2 years and nine months before we got pregnant. Married for 9 months and she was planned. Now we've been together almost 8 years and I'm happy to say it's working out.