I’m 35 weeks and I’m getting induced in 3 days my bf is going out with his friends to club but I don’t think it’s fair because I feel like my life is on pause but his isn’t but if I say something I’m being controlling.
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This close to the end? No that’s a wrap for me because you’re getting close to being able to go into labor at any moment. If it was earlier I wouldn’t really care 🤷🏻♀️

I feel like as long as he's balancing his time with you and you feel supported then I wouldn't be too upset if that's the life y'all lead before the baby. If he is supportive, I'd think it would be good to let him enjoy his time because he probably won't have it once the baby is here!

Yea I don’t think that’s appropriate but maybe at times if he wants to get out and have some fun. But as u being this far in pregnancy no. He should be there supporting u in everything. Ik he might feel like he won’t be able to go out and have an opportunity again to club bc the baby will be born sooner rather than later. But whenever you want to go out u can just have him watch the baby one day and u can go with your friends.

To be honest , Only single people go to the club so it’s a no for me. If he can’t take you then you might as well be single, because I promise you he’s sure acting like he isnt in a relationship while being at the club. Ain’t nothing to do there but put your fatty on someone’s daddy and drink 🤷🏻♀️😭

He doesn’t go to the “club” but he goes shisha lounges and pokies and bars w his friends, and I don’t mind. When I’m like 6m pp I start going to clubs myself he’s not a dancer- I am. So I’m the one that goes to clubs I’ve been when pregnant too just tagging along w my friends and having mocktails/juice all night, we go shisha bars and karaoke too. I like Latin clubs though, dancing salsa and bachata