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I’m 12 weeks 2 days pregnant today and I’ve got my 12 weeks scan tomorrow🤞
I haven’t been intimate with my boyfriend since I found out I was pregnant I guess because I’m scared because this is my third pregnancy and my previous 2 pregnancies have ended badly☹️ I had a small sch at about 6 weeks that cleared up. By 8 weeks and I’ve had no bleeding or pain since. My last scan was at 10 weeks 5 days and baby was healthy🥹 Is it safe to be intimate (sorry I’m just so scared of something bad happening with baby)

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I feel you I’m 13 weeks and haven’t been intimate with my husband either this is my first pregnancy and I was scared that something might happen but I asked my OB and she said it was fine to have s** but since I found out I haven’t had anything you are not the only one is just now that I’m getting comfortable and letting go a little bit

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Yes it’s safe to be intimate with ur partner all the way though ur pregnancy from the first positive test to just before baby’s born
They only say it’s not safe when a health care professional saids not too for reasons like bleeding or waters breaking etc but unless someone’s told u not to it’s completely safe to have sex x

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