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Hello! My son has what I think is 3B/3C curls and I'm trying to find the best products for him. If anyone has a favorite product that helps with similar curl patterns, please drop some recommendations!!!

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Alcohol and breastfeeding — feeling really guilty

Has anyone else ever ended up breastfeeding sooner than they intended after having a couple of drinks?

I normally try to keep track of what I’ve had and use an app to estimate when the alcohol has cleared, but tonight my baby completely refused the bottle and was absolutely demanding the breast. My estimated level was 0.23‰ (0.023%) when I fed her and I was only a few minutes away from the app saying I was good to go.

Rationally I know that’s a really small amount, but I feel awful because I’m now thinking back to other occasions where I’ve had drinks and breastfed and wondering whether I’ve accidentally exposed her more than I realised.

I’m not a regular/heavy drinker, it’s more dinners, holidays, occasions etc, but the mum guilt is getting to me. Has anyone else worried about this? How do you manage drinking and breastfeeding, especially if your baby refuses bottles? Please be kind ❤️

Cradle cap

Has anyone got any tips on how to get rid of cradle cap? I’ve tried oil and the frida cradle cap brush but it just doesn’t seem to want to go.

4 month old distress

Hi please can I get some advice? in the last few days my four month old has suddenly become very very fussy specifically I’m noticing she’s doing this New thing where she will clench her fists and stretch her arms up above her head she will arch her back and it almost looks like she’s straining or something because her face will go a bit red and she’ll sort of make a grunting/crying noise. It seems like she’s in some sort of discomfort but I’ve got no idea what it is. I’ve tried doing bicycle legs and tummy massage and nothing‘s changed with her formula. Shes feeding as normal. She’s pooing as normal. If anything she probably had an extra one or two today, I haven’t noticed her passing much gas so I don’t know if that’s what it could be.
I’m just worried because I literally can’t put her down at the moment. Every time I lay her down she does it, she has been doing it on and off all day , I try put her in the bouncer which she normally loves and she immediately will throw her arms up, arch her back and effectively try to throw herself out of it. What could it be ?

when did your shit sleeping baby get better and did you have to do anything to change

10 month old sleep is terrible. Was doing okay till 7 months but since wakes after 20 mins at bedtime. Then needs constant patting to settle throughout the night. I'm averaging 3 / 4 hours of broken sleep, 0 time to myself and really am not enjoying motherhood

Weaning off formula

My little girl is going to be one in just over a week 😭 and has about half a tub of formula left - how are people weaning onto cows milk (or whatever alternative you’re using?)
I don’t want to have to buy more formula now so am looking to slowly start the switching process but have no idea how?

Napping at 2 months

I have a 2 month old that isn’t napping during the day unless I’m driving in the car. Does anyone have advice? She sleeps great at night and I’m thinking about taking her up to our next to me and napping her there however I don’t want her to confuse day and night!