when did your shit sleeping baby get better and did you have to do anything to change
10 month old sleep is terrible. Was doing okay till 7 months but since wakes after 20 mins at bedtime. Then needs constant patting to settle throughout the night. I'm averaging 3 / 4 hours of broken sleep, 0 time to myself and really am not enjoying motherhood
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Split nights are usually due to too much daytime sleep, or the last nap of the day falling too close to bedtime so sleep pressure isn't built up and you get false starts- what does wake up/ naps/ bedtime look like at the moment? 😊
7am wake, nap around half 9, nap around 2, bedtime around 7.30pm. He gets around 2h 30 daytime sleep. Last ww 4 hours
I co slept until 15 months where we then very gently sleep trained. If I didn't I think we would still have her in bed now at nearly 2
What kind of sleep training did you do?
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when did your shit sleeping baby get better and did you have to do anything to change
10 month old sleep is terrible. Was doing okay till 7 months but since wakes after 20 mins at bedtime. Then needs constant patting to settle throughout the night. I'm averaging 3 / 4 hours of broken sleep, 0 time to myself and really am not enjoying motherhood
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