I have been with my partner for 5 years two children together I am not very confident at the moment and tbh our relationship isn’t what I want and expect and he knows this he is only interested when he thinks he is getting some s** or some pleasure for himself this morning I only wanted a cuddle and to him he then tried it on and I said I didn’t want to he was then like oh I will help get them ready because I said we will be late and normally he just rushes out for work and because I said no he’s like oh you don’t like it in the morning do you and oh you have a low s** drive it’s like no you just make no effort and just expect it when you put no effort into anything would anyone else be upset by this comment
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Yes definitely he can't expect the goods if foreplay isn't there n foreplay starts with cleaning up being helpful and appreciation towards you on different levels other than sexual xx

For men sex is a physical thing, for women it's an emotional thing x
I don’t think that’s true I enjoy sex just as much but do t make sm feel guilty when I don’t want it because he does nothing else

Your feelings are completely relevant girl, I’m pretty open to people how I feel I just think what have you got to lose. You might aswell bring it up to him. And say you’d wanna have s*x more if he actually did anything else to help you. People need physical touch and I’m not talking about s*x I mean, cuddles and massages, playing with your hair, intimacy without the s*x. Sounds like he needs to do some research 😂 take some classes cuz he sounds immature still xx