Advice please
I’m in a poly marriage I don’t mind if my husband goes out and dances with other women I even told him I’m ok with him kissing other women I just would like to know if he is going out planning to sleep with someone else now with that being said he told me recently that the kissed two other women now that’s not what bothered me this happened while I was at home recovering from having our newborn am I overthinking this please if ur not in a similar relationship don’t come saying u would leave ur husband that’s not helping
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Seeing as how it was a previous agreement I think a healthy convo can come out of that. I think circumstances in life can alter how we view our agreements within polyamory. It’s ok to be upset. But if there wasn’t a convo beforehand, maybe have a conversation with him now and just ask if he could kind of slow down and be home with you just while you recover and then reassess when the routine is a little less demanding.
If you already said that it's okay that he kissed someone else. You shouldn't be worried or upset if he actually did . Have faith in your man during these times. Communicating your feelings is SO important.
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