Biting at daycare

How did you go about your child getting bit at daycare? This is the second time my daughter has been bit, and this time, they broke skin.
Apparently, the daycare can't tell me who done it, which i think is stupid as it's my child getting hurt by another kid.

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That happened twice! I’d be having a conversation with the director of the preschool or whoever is in charge. If it’s the same kid, that child must be dealt with. If they simply don’t even know who but your kid, well now they’re not supervising play time well enough and that needs to change asap!

I’d be pissed if my daughter came home with bite marks… twice!!

Dosent feel good being on the other end of it either. Not always an easy behavior to stop.

My son was bitten multiple times at daycare, and I started asking some questions about it. I don't want another kid to get kicked out or lose his spot, but I just wanted assurance that his caregivers are watching and doing their best to ensure everyone is safe.

None of the bites ever broke the skin, and the daycare couldn't tell me who did it. But eventually my son could tell me, and toddlers are snitches.

Make a big issue out of it. Specially if it happens often.. like once every few months is normal.. developmental but my daughter got bit 3 times in a week!!! I talked to the director, the owners and told them if it happened again she wouldn't be going to that daycare, that we were paying too much for her just to be bitten. I took pictures and documented everything. They gave me some excuses (that they were looking for each other, and they were friends🙄) but I said it was still they responsability to shadow the child that is biting.

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Am I over reacting?

MIL came over on sunday to help with childcare, I'm heavily pregnant so she said why don't you go for a nap while I'm here.
I had a 2 hr nap upstairs and during that time she fell asleep on the sofa for 1.5 hrs. I know because we have security cameras round the house which i looked at later on after she'd gone.
My daughter slept for 30 mins on her, on the arm of the sofa and then the rest of the time she was left with the TV on.
I'm really annoyed because we have a wooden floor, a coffee table that she tries to climb on, she had hair ties which she often pulls out and tries to chew therefore a choking risk.
She's 20 months old.
Am I over reacting?
The worst thing is when I came downstairs after my nap, she 'she's not had much sleep only about 10 minutes'. But idk how she'd know that because my daughter woke up ages before she did.

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