Am I the only one?

Why the fudge in a jar do people use my baby’s pram handle as support on public transport when I’m sitting by the doors or on a busy bus. I hate when people touch the handlebar because I don’t know if they’re clean or dirty and I’ve got to wipe it down again. Like there are so many poles for people to use for support but yet they put their hands on my newborns pram?! Why? Don’t tell me it’s just me, it infuriates me. You’ve got to a special kind of stupid to think that’s ok.

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This is why I am happy to have Stokke Xplory, as I can fold the handle down. Now they have nothing haha

I would definitely say something. Who's to say they don't lose their balance, grab your stroller handle and pull the thing to the ground with you baby in it?!
That's insane to me. Speak up babe

Oh no! I'm sorry 😔 didn't mean to unlock a new paranoia.
I totally get it the split second thing. Not sure what you can do other than physically getting between them but depending on the layout or the situation might not be possible for you. I definitely agree though, that's insane and I'd be pissed

The amount of times I’ve cussed people for all sorts of things like this on public transport. I need my license like TOMORROW. I will be driving by May- I’ve decided. Also glad I no longer bring the buggy out, stopped a few months back now as my daughter turned 3 in August. But girllllll you’re not alone trust me!!

I don’t bus much now as I have a car but it is possible to have a carrier instead ? Sounds like an awful situation :(

Christ as if! Carry around fart spray and spray anyone who does it 😂

Thank you! I initially thought as I was being a Karen. My husband says I’m becoming Karen when it comes to my baby 🤣 thankfully I don’t have to use public transport often, only when I need to go for appointments or places not worth stressing over parking since I live in London.

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I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

What would you do in this situation? I’m already pretty much decided that I’ll stop telling her anything about my struggles, but I’m almost at the point where i feel like it should be confronted because she, of all people, should understand what I’m going through.

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I’m going crazy. Baby born at 2.26kg. Slow to put on weight. This last week hasn’t put on any. Been trying to feed him at night and he’s not interested at all. Fast asleep. During day he will have 5 minute gulps and that’s it. He don’t cry for milk. I’ve got to keep offering to him. I try to offer it every hour but I don’t know what I’m doing. HV said nutrition comes after 5 minutes so I should pump first and then give him. I find it so hard. I tried to pump one boob nothing came. The other abit came. Tried giving him express he’s not interested in that too. Sometimes he will go for a longer a feed but not long at all. He’s 4 months and is currently 5.46kg. I have no family or friend support here and wish I had a cook, cleaner and nanny to help with everything so I can concentrate on the little one. I don’t know what’s wrong with him but I’m loosing it. It doesn’t help that my also stressed generally about my relationship and life circumstances. Any advice that will work. Any comfort you can give. I’m fed up. Is this regression - not feeding. He’s fast fast asleep. I’ve been trying to push the nipple in but that mouth is closed shut. I took some clothes off. Changed his nappy but he’s still asleep. Please help

Sleeping bag

8 week old in sleeping bag for first time as big enough! Do you feed your child in the night whilst in the sleeping bag or taken them out, feed then transfer back to sleeping bag before putting down?

i just want someone to talk to😔😔😔😔

when things get hard i have nothing not any support from my partner im convinced he doesn’t even love me anymore but thats another story
I have a 3 yo and a 2yo that are in bed sleeping only just now. I have a 1 yo that’s been sleeping from 8 o’clock to 10 o’clock. I just gave her her milk and she would’ve gone back to sleep if it wasn’t that
I lost her dummy earlier in the day when I went out
so now she won’t go back to sleep and she won’t accept any of the other dummy’s i have!😔😔and it’s 10 o’clock and I’m gonna be up until 3 o’clock with her and when she does want to go to sleep i won’t have any dummy to give her she will accept and she won’t sleep without it i just wanna cry 😔i have nobody to talk to and i feel so alone i get no support from anybody i’m so tired and i don’t feel well to top it off😔

Leaky nappy help

What nappies are you using to stop leaks?? We use pampers ultra dry size 5, and for the past few nights he has lashed through and we’ve had to completely change him during the night. Last night he leashed through twice!! He sleeps on his front and stays leaks through at the top of his leg where the tabs connect. Didn’t know whether to size up, he has a bit of a belly on him but he’s smack in middle of weight guidance so shouldn’t need too