i just want someone to talk to😔😔😔😔

when things get hard i have nothing not any support from my partner im convinced he doesn’t even love me anymore but thats another story
I have a 3 yo and a 2yo that are in bed sleeping only just now. I have a 1 yo that’s been sleeping from 8 o’clock to 10 o’clock. I just gave her her milk and she would’ve gone back to sleep if it wasn’t that
I lost her dummy earlier in the day when I went out
so now she won’t go back to sleep and she won’t accept any of the other dummy’s i have!😔😔and it’s 10 o’clock and I’m gonna be up until 3 o’clock with her and when she does want to go to sleep i won’t have any dummy to give her she will accept and she won’t sleep without it i just wanna cry 😔i have nobody to talk to and i feel so alone i get no support from anybody i’m so tired and i don’t feel well to top it off😔

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Hi 👋
Im sorry youre having a tough time. Are you able to buy another dummy the same as the one you lost?
My inbox is always there is you would like a chat

I’m in the same boat ♥️ you can always message me!

It sounds like you have a lot on your plate I feel for you girl , I hope your 1 year old will go to sleep without the dummy surely they will get tired enough eventually but it doesn’t help when your overwhelmed they can sense your energy! Try some breathing techniques with her it could help you both to calm , sorry that’s the only advice I have but sometimes the simplest things work xx

I feel exactly same no help from anyone feel free to message me x

Yeah I understand. But dont be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes. I've lost countless things. Maybe have a look on amazon and see if you can find them cheaper.

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