Tea Time

not everybody wants to have soft feminine energy and there’s nothing wrong with that, but yes some people are unnecessarily aggressive.

Honestly it is very unnecessarily aggressive sometimes!
I think people are really going through a lot ,and they take it out here !

I don't think I've been soft feminine in life. Didn't get the memo I suppose. Didn't get that package in the womb.

Peanut is almost just as toxic as TikTok and sadly I must admit that I do get wrapped up in it sometimes myself.
I find incognito posts are usually where the fire 🔥 is cause people can hide behind it

We can only be queens and uplift and encourage others when we are confident and secure and happy within ourselves. Lots of mums on here are hurt. Broken. Abused. Neglected. Ignored. Overstimulated and no help and burnt TF out. Cheated on. In their every day life. Scroll for 2mins and you’ll see that, all the posts crying out for help and at breaking point. Their cup isn’t full to be able to pour into others. Be kind. Take that into consideration if you’re being attacked or someone’s being rude back. Block or ignore or both. We can’t control what comes out of someone’s mouth but we can control how we deal w it.

I am very intentionally teaching my girls not to have “soft feminine energy”. I want them to be bold and independent and aggressive when needed

I can be either or it just depends on the situation.