Solid preference changes

My bub turned 9months last week and since then his feeding preference seems to have changed overnight. We would do spoon feed + finger food(blw which he would mostly just play with) but now he just doesnt want to be spoon fed. He no longer wants to eat some of the home made cereals that he used to like earlier, soups, etc. he takes up the finger food but most of it just gets thrown around, but he is showing clear preference to finger food. I am worried he isnt eating enough. He is also teething right now. Anyone else in similar situation?

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My little one went off finger foods for atleast 2 weeks while he was waiting for his front teeth to push through properly , he kinda played with it too and wasn't eating much and like you said jt ended up on the floor but I always gave an option with lunch so I'd spoon feed and give him finger foods , he still plays with the first one but then I just lead it to his mouth and now he's using his pincer fingers to eat his finger foods now x

Their preferences change constantly. It’s the same with us, tastebuds are still developing. I wouldn’t worry about how much he’s eating as he’ll still be on milk and food is just for fun. Sometimes my boy will eat loads and other times I’m lucky if he’s even ingested a crumb. Just go with his flow and let him lead how/what he wants to eat x

My little one went off spoon foods for about a week when she really started taking to get into finger foods. We used to do main part of the meal was spoon based food and small amount of finger food so when she didn't want spoon I switched it around to majority finger foods and a small amount of spoon food which she refused most days and then she was fine again and now has a mix of whatever depending on what we're having and what I've batch cooked etc

No advice but I’m having the same problem 😕! LO just turned 9 months too.

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Is it bad of me to think this or no?

My husband has been abroad for work (1 day and exploring for 1 day) for 2 and a half days which means I’ve had both kids (1 year and 4 year old) for 2 and a half days plus cooking, cleaning, taking them to clubs, bedtimes!
He came home late afternoon and said I’m so tired, I just need to chill. I said can you wash up whilst I sort kids dinner out, he said he’ll do it later which means he won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it so I said no do it now please otherwise I’ll end up doing it and he said well you have been home and I’ve been away so you’ve just been relaxing.
Don’t know what planet he is on but having the kids alone for 2.5 days is not relaxing. I was stressed!

When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
Is that bad?

Feeding

My son is coming up to five months and I just started giving him oatmeal and rice cereal. When can you start trying veggies or fruits? I only give him the oatmeal or rice cereal once a day right now which is what the paediatrician had said to do. I’m just curious to when anybody tried anything else with their kids cause my son eats a lot of formula and he’s VERY curious when I eat.

Really bothered by this

A friend posted this and it really bothers me because that is exactly how she parents her kid, and it's rather unfortunate because when our kids hang out together, her kid has a meltdown at least 5x within an hour. We have know them for years and it's only gotten worse. My kids will concede to hers, because they don't want to see their friend crying, but it sucks because they give up so much of their toys and enjoyment to keep the peace. We aren't hanging out as much anymore but it's rather sad to think she doesn't intervene more in her child tantrums and just let's it slide

Is this normal

Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?

My 2 year old won’t eat nothing but snacks

Is this normal ? He won’t even try anything I eat .. he really only like pizza fries and spaghetti… nuggets and snacks bananas some other fruit but like anything else he won’t eat if try but I don’t want to force him I’m just I feel like bad I mean he isn’t losing weight I breastfeed mostly still

Shift worker daddies - advice please?

My husband works shifts (6am-6pm days or 6pm-6am nights) so when he’s on shift we either get about an hour or 2 before he goes to work or an hour or 2 when we gets home with him.

I don’t think people who aren’t married/have babies with shift workers fully understand the impact of feeling like a solo parent sometimes.

Does anyone have any advice? I do have parents who can help but I struggle to leave my baby with others as I always feel like they don’t understand the need for tracking wake windows or feeds and our baby will not sleep unless we black out a room or go for a car drive . Everyone seems to think ‘if he’s tired he’ll drop off’ - no he’ll just get overtired and have to then pay for it during his night sleep. So I feel like it’s just easier for me to do it all myself.

When my husbands off work he is great but I do take the mental load of telling him what to do or even reminding him of wake windows etc because he’s not here and forgets routines. He’s also being tested for ADHD currently so there’s that on top of shift work.

Just looking for advice on how to stay sane/keep routines or share loads with shifts workers?

Thank you ❤️