Debrief appointment

Has anyone got any info of their debrief appointment they don’t mind sharing if they’ve had one?
I’ve got mine on the 9th December and just feel a little lost- especially because I feel like they’ve just forgotten about us. The 9th is the last possible day they had to legally do this and it’s as if we’ve been an after thought.
I know they’ve had their review meeting to see if anything could’ve been done but for the first time since my loss in June I’ve done some research and what happened could’ve been prevented had they just scanned like I was requesting for 3 weeks. I’m so annoyed I’ve only just researched it as I would’ve loved to have put it in my notes of my point of view.
I’m also currently pregnant and the words my bereavement midwife used were “let’s get this out the way so you can focus on this pregnancy”
Like being pregnant again makes it any easier my son died?!
Is it worth bringing up what I’ve found out in the appointment?

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Anyone else up feeding their Bebe?

As above. Trying so hard to keep my eyes open

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Oh my God, oh my God I hope this is not true!!!! I’m kind of scared

I’ve been throwing up and taking a shit all night!!! I just hope that it’s not what I think it is

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Small head reported following 20 week scan

Has anyone else had it flagged that their baby is in the bottom 5th percentile for head size?

They said everything was fine whilst we were in the scan and then I got a phone call the next day saying that it’s on the small side and we’re being referred to a paediatric specialist at St George’s. Has anyone else had this and how did things go??

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Would you bring 9 week old to a family party of 35+ people?

These are also people who will want to pass the baby around and get a turn to hold him. He just got his 2 month shots two days ago

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Exercise 6 weeks after c section

What movement did people start to introduce? I won’t do anything too vigorous until I’ve seen the pelvic physio as I don’t want to compromise anything that may have been extremely weakened through pregnancy! But just wondering what types of classes/movement people started off with?

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Is this normal??

I’m 29 weeks pregnant and having really aching legs and they’re all lumpy and swollen. Above the knee and behind the knee . Should I be worried ? My legs have never looked like this up until a few days ago. ??

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