Disgusting

I am so disgusted and turned off by my boyfriend, he’s not one to move away and pass gas he will fart whenever, whether we’re eating, or having sex. Last night he passed gas while we were having sex and I told him to get off of me because that turned me all the way off. Since I’ve met him, he has always dug in his nose, always. He would always get tissue and stick it up his nose and blood comes out and would use the same tissue over and over and over and leave it random places like the couch, on the bathroom counter, or on the dresser. And I find it so disgusting because why am i seeing what’s in your nose? Lately he’s been using the bathroom and leaving the crumbs from his legs on the toilet “booty parsley” he won’t even wipe it, he’ll just leave it there like why? He claims he doesn’t look back at the toilet after getting up like huh? So what if you got poop on the toilet? He also sneezes everywhere without covering his nose, so he sprinkles his cooties everywhere. Now he’s sick and the bloody tissues are randomly left in places and honestly it’s just all pissing me off to the point where I’m considering leaving. It’s a major major turn off and he’s not understanding that. Yesterday he passed gas in the car so instead of leaving the windows down to air the car out before getting out he doesn’t. So i get in the car this morning and it reeks of poop, i almost threw up, and this morning again he passed gas while we were having sex. Is this a deal breaker or am I trippin?

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This is a big deal for him because I cannot 🤢

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He doesn’t do it during sex lol but he does it but I grew up with 5 brothers so farts don’t bother me. Now me on the other hand I farted right after sex but I’m almost in my 2nd trimester and very gassy and he just laughed and said damn lol 😂. My ex was nasty. He would leave crumbs on the toilet to. Like how tf do you not see that? But I think you have it worse and might want to bring that up to him he’s worse than a teenage boy ..

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Farting during sex can happen i feel like we've all been there, theres a lot of movement going on, but at least most of us have the grace to be embarrassed af. But that's if its once in a blue moon, if he's happy to regularly do it that's weird 🫠

Every single other thing you've said though... disgusting! Totally can be helped and is just basic hygiene and is totally non negotiable and a deal breaker to me 😳 wtf do you mean booty parsley 😭🤮 and putting tissues in the bin is not hard, even if you feel shit its like just have a bag next to you and drop them in, why is he leaving his germs everywhere and doing a spray coat 😳

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Girl, that's a deal breaker. If he's going to act like a teenage boy that doesn't wash his a$$, then nah. Don't lower your standards for a man that doesn't use a washcloth.

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Farting during sex happens. I actually love it when my wife farts during because it means she’s so turned on, she lost control of her body and that’s hot.

The rest is gross, and makes it seem like you’re his mom. But also, if he farted the night before you smelled it in the car, that sounds like it needs addressing, medically.

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My mouth stayed dropped the ENTIRE time reading this. It just kept getting worse! If you’ve talked to him about how these things make you feel- I’d say it’s time to go. I mean… there must be good reasons you’re dating him, but are they THAT good? 😅

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Idk girl...that's pretty gross. My bf farts in the car but will immediately roll the windows down, He picks his nose and leaves tissues around too but not all the time and I can't see what's on them. I feel like all this is normal for a man to an extent but I do think your man crossed the line.. I would be disgusted. My bf doesn't do the toilet thing and will cover his sneeze or turn around when necessary. I also think this depends on what people find disgusting because my friends have told me about their exs leaving poop stain in undies and never brushing their teeth and their bfs peepee smelling funky n they tolerated it...like I could fucking never deal with that n my bf actually has good hygien...so again I think it depends on the woman you ask.

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Did he do this before you got pregnant??? I wouldn’t have a baby with someone like that tbh

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This thread and comments got me this morning 🤣🤮 I probably shouldn’t have read it while eating my cereal and feeling nauseous 🤢

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Yeahhhh that's gross and worth leaving over. He sounds like he doesn't care and won't change.

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That’s definitely a deal breaker. He is so unhygienic and just plain nasty. I would not be able to do it at all 😩
My ex was like that and guess what , he’s an ex for a reason 🙂‍↔️

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He’s stubborn and gross and doesn’t care about your comfort.

Farting during sex can be by accident but the rest is so disgusting.

He is enjoying upsetting you.

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you’re trippin bc he was this nasty since yall started dating. So you cannot turn “this” off as much as you want to

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She said it in the post
Since they’ve met he’s always dug his nose. That’s pretty nasty. Makes you wonder what other nasty habits he had/has
The farting is so disgusting and I would literally not put up with that. Especially if a “man” is doing so during sex. Literally no respect.

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Flakes from his legs?? I’ve never heard of such a thing. It sounds like he has hygiene problems. Your legs shouldn’t be so dirty that they flake. I’ve only seen that while working on EMS with really old and sickly people who have skin that flakes. And it’s not normal for a fart to stay in the car all night, even if the windows aren’t open. Did he poop on the seat? Seriously, he may have pooped his pants and some particles stayed in the seat. Girl, that’s so gross. I don’t even know what to tell you. That can’t be a recent development.
Edit for typo.

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