I’ve loss it finally
Please help me good or bad advice I need it !!!
Quick rundown had my baby 3 months ago her dad was cheating on me all the way through pregnancy u til 2 months pp . I was depressed and sad along with pnd ! I allowed him to leave my house sleep about and come back I had no fight left in me I was broken emotionless didn’t want to be here . Fact forward to a few days after valentines day a male friend brought me flowers ex didn’t like it called me all the names ect but 4 days later begging me back I tried for our daughter but he’s put his hands on me twice in the month daily name calling body shaming
Then today we was out his friend rang him why we was in the car to say he has 2 girls for them to go link this was on loud speaker ! I lost my shit arguing we got home I seen red n went for him I then got the hammer & smashed his car windows . I know that was wrong but being goaded daily put down n body shamed made me hate him then I just seen red
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Leave and don't look back. Only advice I have. Leave for you and your baby. You don't want them seeing relationships like this. Start over..just leave
this guy is not worth you getting a charge and ruining your record for. Get yourself a plan to leave and don’t look back.
You need to get out. Your child doesn’t deserve this and neither do you. If you keep allowing him back the same stuff is going to happen he’s not changing. What if one day he takes hitting you too far and you fall and hit your head and the worst thing happens, God forbid. Or what if he lays hands on your daughter. You need to think about what type of life you and your daughter want to live.
Leave before one of you goes to jail
Yall better don’t end up killing one another
It’s not worth it
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