genuine friends..

is it just me?… or does it seem/ feel impossible to make friends, mum friends, like actual genuine ones, the kind of ones that want to reply when they can & hangout, go out on playdates , lunch or even just have a cuppa tea/ coffee? 😓 even have laughs with 😅feeling like it’s so hard to find someone where the interest is mutual 🙏 feeling like it might be me.. i’m also an Autism mama. that’s hard for some to understand.. ❤️ ( sorry if this seems a bit much, but i still feel like i haven’t found that friend. that friend whose intentions are mutual.)

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I get ya! I've found it's just hard in general making friends as we get older. Seemed so easy at school 😂

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Not just you!! I feel this so much. People can be so fake, it’s something shocking I’ve just had to cut off a 5 year friendship with someone due to the toxicity. I always seem to be the one reaching out or trying to make plans (I get that life is busy, but some effort would be nice), and it really sucks. I just want something genuine, where it’s a two-way street.

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I feel this too... It's why I tried joining this app lol

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Hey, i totally get this too!! I live in nelson so a little far from you but would still love to connect xx

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