Clog ducts?

Looking for some advice. Does this sound like clog ducts to you? The pain feels kind of like pins and needles and extremely painful. I had one a few days ago, went away, and today woke up with both sides feel engorged/heavy and then when I go to pump and latch baby it was excruciating. I ended up using a Manual pump and the pain was bad but eventually went down a lot. There was a lump on that side and now that the pain is gone I’m not feeling the lump but still feel engorged. The other side doesn’t have a lump but I feel the pins and needles occasionally while pumping just now. There is no redness and no fever. Does this sound like clogged ducts? Any advice? I mostly pump and try to empty breasts but I could pump over 20 minutes and milk will still trickle out. I ordered sunflower lecithin, massages, and have been taking ibuprofen.

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