How long did you wait to go to public places after having a baby?

*more so, a baby born in the winter cold and flu months

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My first was born in January and I stayed home for at least a month, but most of that was because the recovery was really hard. My second was born in July. I took her to a museum and a restaurant at 6 days old lol

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My babies were born in spring so towards the end of sick season but we waited 6 weeks since one had a NICU stay.
At this time of the year I’d probably wait the 2 months for vaccines if it’s somewhere where socializing happens. If it’s like a store run where I could cover them then earlier is fine

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I was in public 3 weeks after my Jan baby was born.

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My first was a Feb baby, out on day 5. My second was a Nov baby with an older sibling in nursery and was out on day 2 at a soft play 😆

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baby was born in December and i waited about 3/4 weeks as had a c-section so when i was able to walk properly we went to costa for a break from the same 4 walls x

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Mine was within the first month! Christmas baby, so right in the middle of winter. I only really took him places in a wrap though and generally kept my distance from people in public.

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September baby and took her for appointments like BCG and birth certificate so I’d say like 2-3 weeks. Then had baby photos at like 6 days old.

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His first outing was on day 4 but he needed a perscription from the pharmacy lol. We walked around town and even went to the aquarium soon after

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Spring baby- in Costco on day 5

Winter baby- at the park cafe and playground on day 9.

I was out everyday from discharge walking as instructed after surgery. By 8 weeks pp I was on a plane to Australia to see family 😊

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I still had to do the school run and take my oldest to swimming and beavers. We also had a midwife appointment the day we were released from hospital. Plus food shopping ect.

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My second was a winter baby (mid December) and her first walk/trip to our local cafe was when she was just under 3 weeks old.
She was 3 weeks early and now I’m thinking how mad it was that I went out not even 3 weeks post c section 😅😅

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2nd baby was less than 48 hours old when we went to gymnastics with her toddler sister 🤣

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I was at target literally the same day I gave birth.

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I was showing my baby off 4 days postpartum to my cafe and regulars. I could not hide my joy or pride, and we went out for walks about every day. I was six weeks postpartum when I wore him on me and trekked two miles to and from a cafe in town because I was trying to be brave and stay fit. I walked 10k+ steps at work 5-6 days a week before then. I had energy to spare.

Would I do it again? If I feel physically able. It was easier to walk with him than driving with him.. We didn't get close to anyone and I EBF so I felt comfortable keeping him healthy, I don't think he caught anything until he was quite a bit older. I was careful if whoever was around seemed unwell, to avoid and not let them hold him.

With my first I stayed in until I needed to return to classes six weeks later and get her in daycare. Very different circumstances but I really only had the flexibility to choose with my second baby. I think whatever you decide on is best is fine. You're the parent. Baby 1 born in November, 2nd in Dec.

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2 days after my C-section

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I had baby in Feb 2021 I didn't take her out around family til July.

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My first was born in mid Sept and we took him to a festival under a week old and we just carried him so no one tried to come too close to him . The baby im pregnant with now due in Feb I’ll go out with after he’s a week or so old to at least a grocery store but no big family gatherings for a while where ppl want to play pass the baby .

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Born on December 22nd, she was in a pub having Christmas dinner with all the family on the 25th.

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My daughter got out of the NICU after 10 days and we went to Walmart. Son was a preemie and we went to the Drs and did life as normal soon after he got out as well

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My son was born in November we went out within the first week, he wasn’t sick for the first time until 4 months ago (he’s currently 14 months) but we also made sure we got him his RSV shot!

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