Rant of the night !

That's crazy! Has he been any support at all? Because from what you've written it seems like a massive red flag!

He’s come to all the appointments and scans but that’s pretty much it , when it comes to buying baby things I’ve done it all

What's the plan for the birth and afterwards?

I'd be saying "if" isn't an option. He's either going to be a father or he isn't and it's about time he accepted this baby is coming publicly or gave a damn good reason why not.

Shoot at that point I'm printing out pregnancy announcements to mail everyone and making sure he knows his folks are on the list.

That's no good I'm going to say this there is someone else, I had the some thin happening to me and I thought I wasn't good enough and all that tell i went into his phone and found out he was still talking to his ex and some other women as well, and he didn't even tell his family about me tell i was 18 weeks pregnant.with his first child he has a problem with in himself it's choice he makes well effort ur choice as well. Sorry hun I no how u feel