Advice needed for poos.

Little boy is fully trained for a wee but we’re really struggling for a poo, he used to go fine on the toilet, liked the idea of flushing jt etc and then he had an accident in his pants at nursery one day and it’s totally pushed him back!

Anyone else’s little one struggle for poos? I need help, everything I’m reading online I’m in limbo with.

Reward charts but no reward charts because it’s too much pressure for them.

Nappy on if that’s how he feels more comfortable but people saying no don’t go back.

I’m honestly stressed 😭 he hasn’t been for 2 days and I know he needs one.

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We gave ours his nappy when he asked because he was withholding as well. He just won’t go at the childminders so had an accident as soon as he got home today. I agree there’s so much contradictory advice online 🙈! We’ve just had four days back in nappies then today went back to potty training, he’s done great with wee’s today but it’s like he’s become scared to poo now, I think he had a hard one that may have hurt him. Going to order some poo positive books and try to get into a routine of sitting on the toilet after meals to see if that helps 🤞🏻. If it’s any reassurance it made no difference to us having a few days back in nappies, I don’t think it has to be all or nothing x

Thank you for replying. I just literally feel stuck and like I’m confusing him because we’ve nailed the wees on the toilet! Nursery is telling me not to put a nappy on for poos as it’s confusing him and asking for one there (think it’s also so we can have a wee there too)

I’m going to have to keep the nappy’s for poo though because he is with holding so much. Might have to try the same after meals!

Thank you x

How you getting on with the potty training? Feel like we’ve took a massive step with even the wees now, debating whether to go back into nappies x

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Is it bad of me to think this or no?

My husband has been abroad for work (1 day and exploring for 1 day) for 2 and a half days which means I’ve had both kids (1 year and 4 year old) for 2 and a half days plus cooking, cleaning, taking them to clubs, bedtimes!
He came home late afternoon and said I’m so tired, I just need to chill. I said can you wash up whilst I sort kids dinner out, he said he’ll do it later which means he won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it so I said no do it now please otherwise I’ll end up doing it and he said well you have been home and I’ve been away so you’ve just been relaxing.
Don’t know what planet he is on but having the kids alone for 2.5 days is not relaxing. I was stressed!

When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
Is that bad?

Post partum dad

I have a 2 month old. A few weeks ago my husband crashed out because he didn't feel like he was getting to bond with her. I started exclusively breastfeeding around that time and honestly didnt see the big deal. Baby and I left for a few days and when we got back home, everything was fine. He was extremely hands-on. He helped with my meals, her bedtime, bath, stories.....for a few weeks it was great. Then he randomly sounds depressed af. He says our lo is better off without him, he wants to sleep all day , he asks me not to watch tv then tried playing a video game. He refused to reply to me when i asked any follow-up questions. Then he woke up our baby trying to race me to the bathroom first thing in the morning . He's doing a weird mix of crying, trying, and giving up. Im starting to feel like I cant handle him not being able to handle life with baby and just want to be alone. Are there resources for men?

Feeding

My son is coming up to five months and I just started giving him oatmeal and rice cereal. When can you start trying veggies or fruits? I only give him the oatmeal or rice cereal once a day right now which is what the paediatrician had said to do. I’m just curious to when anybody tried anything else with their kids cause my son eats a lot of formula and he’s VERY curious when I eat.

Really bothered by this

A friend posted this and it really bothers me because that is exactly how she parents her kid, and it's rather unfortunate because when our kids hang out together, her kid has a meltdown at least 5x within an hour. We have know them for years and it's only gotten worse. My kids will concede to hers, because they don't want to see their friend crying, but it sucks because they give up so much of their toys and enjoyment to keep the peace. We aren't hanging out as much anymore but it's rather sad to think she doesn't intervene more in her child tantrums and just let's it slide

My 2 year old won’t eat nothing but snacks

Is this normal ? He won’t even try anything I eat .. he really only like pizza fries and spaghetti… nuggets and snacks bananas some other fruit but like anything else he won’t eat if try but I don’t want to force him I’m just I feel like bad I mean he isn’t losing weight I breastfeed mostly still

Is this normal

Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?