Baby carrier advice

Hey all!

My partner and I recently bought the Osprey Poco backpack carrier for our 11 month old. We absolutely love it, but only when my partner uses it. For me, it kills my back, no matter how much I adjust! It’s just too much and doesn’t sit right against me.
I’m after a smaller backpack style one, where baby is sat right against my back, almost like I’m giving him a piggyback.
Any suggestions would be really appreciated as I’m always stuck on pram walks (and living in the countryside means I’m very restricted!)

Ty xxx

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in our community

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Baby is 5 months old, she has changed a lot in personality over the last month, more needy, sleep changes etc but have put it down to the 4 month regression and teething.
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Pic of my usually smiley girl so we don’t get lost 🩷

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