I’m 24 weeks pregnant and just went to send myself a picture of my toddler off my boyfriends phone and saw his last two pictures are screenshots of him looking at his exes boobs whilst they were on holiday! When I confronted him he said he was going to send me it as a ‘joke’ as to how different his life is now! Which I thinks bloody weird! Am I right to be pissed off
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Fuck him

Yeah fuck him he’s taking the piss x

Leave him. Please do not be naive and believe his pathetic excuse he is quite obviously lying. As someone that left the father of their child whilst they were pregnant, its challenging at first but life gets so much better when you cut off the dead weight. Would you rather stay with someone who you don’t trust and quite clearly has no respect for you - because they never improve. Or would you rather chose temporary pain of a breakup for a lifetime of peace? This isn’t just weird- this is a serious SERIOUS red flag and 100% calls for a breakup. He’s lusting over his ex whilst you’re pregnant with his child. Please chose yourself and leave.

OH HELL NO

It’s not just weird it’s a lie. I can’t with some men

Girl that’s a lie forsure. They were for his spank bank and he forgot to delete them. Highly disrespectful and shows he would cheat if given the chance.

Before you let randoms convince you to lead with anger and resentment, I need you to truly ask what type of dedication you’re willing to give to this man you decided to have a baby with. Men are dumb, and I think we all know that. You hold a lot of power over how the situation goes. I’m not saying give him an ultimatum, but I’m also saying, let him know that you’re not playing around. If he really doesn’t want to lose you from something “silly “ like this, then he’ll do whatever it takes to not lose you and his baby. Some might say that looks like doing counseling, couples retreats, parenting classes, church, etc..
If he shows any disinterest or lack of respect in those decisions, then that’s when you pull the plug. But woman to woman, mom to mom- know what cards you’re holding and how to play them. Wishing you nothing but the best my love

Fuck that man! He doesn’t deserve you at all

calling men dumb is just a cop out. They are fully aware of what they are doing and we are not going to use “men are dumb” so they can weasel their way out of accountability. Men are grown ass adults. And if they are too dumb to not be respectful enough to not take pics of an exes boobs, he’s too dumb to be in a relationship.

He’s got some wandering eyes 👀

His last 2 pics?! Wtf. I mean I do have pics of my exes but you’d have to scroll back about 40,000 photos to see them lol they were way way back in my gallery from donkeys ago, they’re not recent. If he’s taken it recently then I would delete them myself. Esp if you’re already holding his phone. How dare he.