Would this annoy you ?
I went on my partners phone to send myself some pictures from my daughters birthday that had just passed and I came across loads of nude pictures and home made sex videos the pictures looked like they had just been taken in a bathroom or bedroom (not porn models ) these was sent to my partner by one of his friends I know this is true because he showed me the thread on WhatsApp and they was altogether in the gallery but why hasn’t he deleted them ? I find this disgusting and disrespectful but he just laughed when I said about it . Also we barely have sex anymore because he never tries to and when I’ve brought it up there is always an excuse so the fact he’s got these on his phone but shows me no attention at all is why I might have my back up more ? Also I saw he had searched for a certain female on insta (famous ) which has annoyed me even more .
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Wait so we're these pictures/videos that his guy friends had sent him? That alone would be extremely problematic for me because I doubt those women know those pictures are being shared.
this friend sends him pictures and videos all the time normally ones they class as “funny” where a woman is farting or something but the ones I saw wasn’t like that which has bothered me I don’t know where they would of come from which is weird .
They sound immature and weird tbh. Personally, this would probably be a deal breaker for me. But we are all different! I think you're right to be disgusted and it would piss me off that he's just laughing it off. That means he's not gonna stop.
I think your intimacy issues are kind of seperate from this though. I think you should try to discuss that more. Don't initiate and make him reject you to start to convo. Just say you wanna talk about it and done let him make an excuse and change the subject.
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