How would you feel if your new bff of a few months brought a b-day gift for your late infant who would’ve been elementary age now?

Gauging if this is a good idea or not. I know everyone grieves differently. But saw a reel on fb about a similar situation and the friend brought a card, cupcake and very small toy to celebrate the late girls bday

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Personally I would be so emotional, and so appreciative in the gesture.. it's kinda hard to put into words, but my husband and I are very open about our son who has passed, and someone else caring about that loss and the anniversaries and recognizing it and to honour it with me would mean so much to me

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I think it would be sweet :) I lost my infant son last May. We celebrated his birthday earlier this month. I think it’s nice to get them a present that they would have liked at the age they are turning. At least that’s what we did :)

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