Hi Moms, I’ve been super depressed lately just knowing that my baby daddy left me as soon as I told him I was pregnant. I am really considering Abortion. I don’t want to be a single mother. I have two older children and their dad has always been in their life since day one so this will be all new for me. Any advice? I am currently 12 weeks pregnant. I know the child will be mine, regardless of how the father feels. On top of it my mother recently passed away, and I just can’t imagine raising another child without herðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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I’m sorry you are going through this, in my opinion I would say abortion if a guy leaves you immediately after you tell him your pregnant. It’s no fun having a baby by a guy that doesn’t want it, when you can have a baby by somebody who actually wants a baby with you. so we’re you and him just messing around at the time? Or in a relationship?

I’m very sorry, I’m going through the same thing and I’m in a somewhat complicated situation but I decided to have my baby anyway and little by little everything is getting better. It’s very hard not to have the support and accompaniment of your partner right now... :/
Florida has a stupid six week rule so I would have to travel out of town. Any recommendations?

You did his tactic was making you feel crazy. You said you're financially stable. When he would make you feel unstable, does his words speak truth? Or did/do you doubt it and question the validity? Because if you take a moment to connect with yourself, and remember your self worth before you felt so bad, what would your first instinct be? If its to have the baby, I think that is the appropriate choice because after he leaves, you will hurt yes, but you get back on track and you realize you're strong than you think you were. If the answer is you would terminate your pregnancy based on some internal work you still need to do and he just made it obvious, then thats your answer. Either way, you're going to be stronger than you think you are.

Praying for your healing and mental head space. 💞✨Keep the baby. Trust me. Don’t let this man ruin your experience of pregnancy and bringing in a new life. If he doesn’t want to be there…his loss. Love on that bundle of joy💖

I would abort 💔