My partners birthday is coming up and we’ve talked about a 3 sum before (I know what he likes) I’m bi so I’m absolutely down for it) I wanna surprise him with his first 3sum on his birthday. Where do yall find a 3rd?
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Honestly I wouldn’t introduce a 3rd into your relationship, that’s a door you don’t want to open. Throw on some sexy lingerie, get the chocolate, whipped cream etc out, give him a lap dance, find an erotic game to play to tantalise his sex taste buds but don’t introduce a 3rd xx

there are many apps you can try! like 3fun

I mean I can’t judge you. Iv been in a throuple before do what makes yall feel good

Feeld… but honestly been the most successful on the normal dating apps like tinder and hinge

I would say to pick someone and obviously get tested for stds before you guys do it and after don't ever contact that person again. Also get tested after.
Just got to be clear to your partner is only a one time thing. Maybe down the line is something you both want to keep but have to work hard on reassurance

He’s not happy with just you? I wouldn’t intro a 3rd coz if you’ve read any posts that have done just that, it always ends up w boundaries crossed, or jealousy or it got messy for no dang reason. People are involved, feelings get involved. Instead me and hubby dance w other people through sensual bachata and kizomba and we form connection with people through dance but it never gets messy and we go home to each other even though we’ve been dancing w other people all night. Be careful w a 3sum. Peoples’ fantasies end up much different from reality.