Am I in the wrong ?
I’ve got 2 kids a 1 year old and a 7 week old both to the same dad.
Currently living with the BD but we are not together. Im really heartbroken about the situation and struggling as the dynamic between us is soo different.
He acts like everything is normal and is happy as a Larry.
He goes away for weekends doesn’t communicate were and tells me I have no right to question.
He told my daughter daddy will see you tomorrow , but hasn’t come back, I’ve tried calling but he ignores my calls and doesn’t respond to my texts.
I feel a little let down as I think I deserve little bit of respect we live in the same house some form of communication to let me know your not returning wouod be nice.
It’s such a shit situation and I just feel like he’s enjoying seeing me hurt and continues to do things to upset me and hurt me.
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Hey doll I’m just going to say it without sugar coating and I don’t mean to upset you but that man doesn’t care about you and he won’t stop treating you like that, he doesn’t view you as a person but rather another object in the house. You are definitely not in the wrong and personally I’d say just let him be, don’t bother him or ask him about his whereabouts etc just let him do whatever he wants to do because if we are being honest you can never make a person do what they don’t want to do or make them act the way they don’t want to act. I’m sorry that you and your children are going through such a difficult situation but I just want you to let that man be as do what’s best for you and your kids 💕 cry it out if need be but never show him that you are vulnerable
You aren’t wrong to feel the way you do but you also need to realize that you can’t rely on him. Live your life like you don’t need him. And your child will unfortunately be hurt by his actions but there’s nothing you can do other than help be there for her. Cuz clearly he doesn’t care.
Mine never answers the phone either. My daughter is under a child protective plan as he hurt me last year. I’m not allowed any male friends and have to do everything he says.
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