Shit sex
So for the past year mine and my boyfriend’s sex life has just deteriorated he used to be very sexual and now he just isn’t affectionate at all ,we barely have sex because there is always an excuse anyway when he does finally try like once every 2 weeks it’s always in the morning when I’m still sleeping ( worst time for me ) and it’s always the same boring side position that I’ve told him I don’t like and find boring it’s like he can’t be bothered to do it any other way just wants a quick pump and I’m so fed up that the last few times he’s tried it I’ve refused and now I don’t even want to have sex because he’s made me feel like shit all this time like there is something wrong with me and doesn’t even want to make any effort when it does happen it’s shit and pointless for me , foreplay has disappeared also and I’m just put off now and I don’t feel comfortable with him it’s like we are strangers . Has anyone else had something similar and got past it ? Or is this the end …..
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Girl lowkey I’m in the same boat. It’s very hard for me to attend to have sex with my partner I just don’t know why I don’t want to. We have our issues going on and have been living in his parents basement for maybe 4 years now so it could have to do with me feeling unmotivated that we will never leave this place and that’s why I don’t even want sex anymore so you’re not alone. In my case I was honest with him and told him straight up how it is. Because part of me does not care if he does find pleasure from someone else maybe it means I have no more romantic feelings but it’s the sad truth on my end. Hopefully for you that is not the case . I hope you get past this❤️
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