Overwhelmed

Hi, I'm 16 weeks pregnant and this is my first pregnancy. Does anybody else feel extremely overwhelmed as to what to do or what to research? I'm trying to get our house prepared but I feel like I'm just making more of a mess. But also as I'm reading information I just feel so lost. I'm dyslexic and it's already hard for me to read this information but I'm struggling to take it in and I fear that I missing important information.

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You've got some time mama. I've been there too. Maybe try and make a list about what needs to get done and what you need to get/ prepare. Make a list about topics on your mind and tackle them one at a time if possible. Talk to your OB or friends or family about what they've seen & what they think is important to research before having a baby. There is sooo much info out there and it's really easy to get overwhelmed. You got this!

Find some baby/parenting classes. That’s a good place to start.

Yes! I feel the same way. I did hear parenting classes are good too

As long as you have a way to feed your baby a place for them to sleep some clothing and diapers that’s all you need .
Sure the classes and extra gear are helpful but just remember those basics so you don’t get overwhelmed .

Ive dont some free classes online with The Baby Academy and have learned a lot. Highly recommend. It’s greatly reduced my anxiety and increased my confidence :)

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