No village?

Hey! So I’m a ftm and I have little to no “village” I lost my mom the same week my son was born and she was going to be my support system so now it’s basically just me and my husband.

I love him to pieces but it’s HARD everyone says “it takes a village to raise a child” but what happens when you don’t have one? I feel like it’s impossible some days.

How do I find a village or how do I cope best? Does anyone else relate?

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

I get this. My husband live in a completely different state than any of our family and I dont have many friends that have kids. I barely see my husband because we work on opposite days so my son doesn't have to go to daycare because its too expensive.

In the same boat ❤️ i dont have answers either just trying to make it day by day

Just had kid #2 with no village. It doesn't get easier you just find a way to push through. I barely see my husband when his much he works so the moments we are together are just extra special. I found routine helped me best to get things done and taking kiddo to go do things like story time at the library helped me make connections with other moms. They're not my best friends but they are there to lend an ear.

I’m a single mom with zero village. You just do what you have to do for your baby! He goes to daycare while I’m at work and other than that he’s with me. Never been watched by anyone else.

Same😞 i am originally from Iran and all our families live there. Some days i just wish someone was here and I could rely 💔

in our community

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.

Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Not the best pic and clearer in person. Is this normal? I've not had any sex since having my LO but I've had strong cravings, sense of smell is strong and my hair still hasnt started to fall out. Im 7 weeks pp so 🤷‍♀️ I wouldnt normally bother testing but with those symptoms that I never really have its like whats going on. Cravings for something very specific too and can only get from KFC now 😩 so its annoying

Can baby mamas be friends?

My son has an older brother from his biodad. Biodad has never had contact with my son. One thing lead to another though and the other child's mother and I got in contact and are planning a meeting for the boys. Biodad has no idea any of this has happened. Biodad also hasnt had contact with the other child in about 2 years. Just thoughts, opinions, anyone been through something similar?
Edit-Thank you all! Have definitely been feeling somewhat weird about it because we never met before but now know it can be a good thing definitely helps. I can't wait for them to meet. My son has been asking for a brother and I can now happily tell him he has one. That just happens to be 13. Im sorry for yall that fight/have issues with the other baby mamas. Sadly some women rather be stuck on the men, when the kid is the one who really matters. They're the ones that end up getting hurt and missing out.

Ovulation test

Please please someone clarify if this test is positive. Im pretty sure it is but Im in disbelief at the minute I haven’t ovulated in 8 months. I feel like crying lol. When is the best time to have sex?

Ovulation test

I know this group is for pregnancy test but just want to double check this ovulation test is positive. I haven’t had a positive ovulation test in months and months I think Im gonna cry. When is best to have sex after a positive ovulation test and how likely is it to get pregnant?

No village?

Trending

in our community

Am I pregnant?

Anyone have this happen before?

Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Can baby mamas be friends?

Ovulation test

Ovulation test