How to handle my child favourotising one set of grandparents?

We are so so lucky thay both grandparents adore our children. We live 2 hours from them but see them a lot. But over the past year, my daughter doesnt want to stay or go to my parents but begs to go to my in-laws. My mother in laws house is like a toy shop, shes got every toy under the sun and its brilliant. No grandparents loves them any less than the other. They get spoilt at both houses but my mother in-law just has a warmth about her that I feel like my mom cant compete with. My mom and dad love them so much and shows them that all the time, they are the ones that take them on amazing days out or will set up an apple bobbing game and just play with them, without the TV on, but my in-laws are definitely the "warmer house" in terms of vibe, they dont go out with them as much the kids pretty much only play in one room when with them, but with loads of toys and the tv on. My mom has tried to replicate this environment and my mom dont love them having the tv on, shed rather actually play with them, but even then they dont get as comfortable as they would at my in-laws. My daughter now refuses to go to my mom and dads and its really upsetting me. I want her to have the relationship with them that shes got with my in-laws, and I feel like im trying to force it. Its upsetting me and my mom (although mom tries to brush it off) but its so shit. I feel like banning my in-laws house out of spite. And im embarrased that when at my parents, she is just asking when she can go to my in-laws instead. I dont know how to make it any better. Weve bought new toys for my moms, new bed sheets, exciting things she hasnt got at home and still she wants my in-laws and not my parents.

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Is it bad of me to think this or no?

My husband has been abroad for work (1 day and exploring for 1 day) for 2 and a half days which means I’ve had both kids (1 year and 4 year old) for 2 and a half days plus cooking, cleaning, taking them to clubs, bedtimes!
He came home late afternoon and said I’m so tired, I just need to chill. I said can you wash up whilst I sort kids dinner out, he said he’ll do it later which means he won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it so I said no do it now please otherwise I’ll end up doing it and he said well you have been home and I’ve been away so you’ve just been relaxing.
Don’t know what planet he is on but having the kids alone for 2.5 days is not relaxing. I was stressed!

When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
Is that bad?

Post partum dad

I have a 2 month old. A few weeks ago my husband crashed out because he didn't feel like he was getting to bond with her. I started exclusively breastfeeding around that time and honestly didnt see the big deal. Baby and I left for a few days and when we got back home, everything was fine. He was extremely hands-on. He helped with my meals, her bedtime, bath, stories.....for a few weeks it was great. Then he randomly sounds depressed af. He says our lo is better off without him, he wants to sleep all day , he asks me not to watch tv then tried playing a video game. He refused to reply to me when i asked any follow-up questions. Then he woke up our baby trying to race me to the bathroom first thing in the morning . He's doing a weird mix of crying, trying, and giving up. Im starting to feel like I cant handle him not being able to handle life with baby and just want to be alone. Are there resources for men?

Feeding

My son is coming up to five months and I just started giving him oatmeal and rice cereal. When can you start trying veggies or fruits? I only give him the oatmeal or rice cereal once a day right now which is what the paediatrician had said to do. I’m just curious to when anybody tried anything else with their kids cause my son eats a lot of formula and he’s VERY curious when I eat.

Really bothered by this

A friend posted this and it really bothers me because that is exactly how she parents her kid, and it's rather unfortunate because when our kids hang out together, her kid has a meltdown at least 5x within an hour. We have know them for years and it's only gotten worse. My kids will concede to hers, because they don't want to see their friend crying, but it sucks because they give up so much of their toys and enjoyment to keep the peace. We aren't hanging out as much anymore but it's rather sad to think she doesn't intervene more in her child tantrums and just let's it slide

My 2 year old won’t eat nothing but snacks

Is this normal ? He won’t even try anything I eat .. he really only like pizza fries and spaghetti… nuggets and snacks bananas some other fruit but like anything else he won’t eat if try but I don’t want to force him I’m just I feel like bad I mean he isn’t losing weight I breastfeed mostly still

Is this normal

Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?