Can someone who has had bad marriage problems before and gotten through it message me? I feel so alone in the situation I'm in and can't talk to my family about it and my unmarried friends are no help. Saying "just leave" is not helpful. If you can relate please comment so I can message you. I just really need either advice or just someone to talk to. Thanks š©µ
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My dear the best thing to do if u havenāt had kid yet , not do it because is going to a long run ā¤ļø

Iāve had some minor bumps in my marriage about invisible labor, the mental and emotional load I felt as if I carried alone. The real struggle of how much us mothers do that go unrecognized and sometimes unappreciated. I donāt know your problems but if they are similar to mine you can message me :) My husband has also always been very emotionally reserved and weāve never had any big issues at all but definitely some hiccups that we have and are still working through!

Together 15 years married nearly 5. Of course there has been ups and downs. Feel free to message me.

In the case of physical, mental, or verbal abuse⦠you really should leave. In the case of cheating. Emotional or physical. Please leave. You should want better for yourself. They donāt love you if they do all that BS.

Iām sorry. So many people are quick to say leave because itās easy. They never even have to know the full story to be quick to say it. Thatās why things donāt last nowadays. No one is willing to stay & fix things.
I try to live my life according to the word & he only gives us 1 free get away from a marriage. Iāve been in a place where God has told me to stay when I was ready to walk away. Things got better after that.

You can message me if you want. Basically grew up with my husband. Weāve been with each other since we were teenagers so you can imagine itās been a bumpy ride š

we met when I was 16š