Husbands ex is claiming she’s pregnant with his baby

Just wanted to vent because I don’t know whether to laugh or cry.

His crazy ex who won’t leave us alone showed up at my child’s birthday with both our friends and families present and announced their affair and alleged pregnancy. She is definitely pregnant.

The plot twist though is my husband is completely sterile and our kid was born with a IVF/sperm donor. No one knows this except us and our doctors, so now we’re essentially doing damage control. Looking to speak with a lawyer for fraud and defamation, but want to talk with our families first.

Mainly just posting here because the situation feels so surreal. Who does that?

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😮😲crazzzzzyyyyy

That’s insane. I’m so sorry you experienced that 💜

Her being psychotic just handed you guys a pay check. Dance your way to the bank 💃

I’m not even gonna sugarcoat it — that girl is embarrassing herself BAD. Like showing up to a kid’s birthday to announce an “affair” and pregnancy?? That’s not normal, that’s desperate and weird.

And the crazy part is… she picked the wrong lie to tell. Out of all things 😭 like this is literally gonna blow up in her face.

You handled it way better than most people would’ve because I’m not gonna lie, a lot of people would’ve lost it right there. But don’t let her drag you down to her level now. That’s what she wants — attention, drama, a reaction.

Just stay calm and move smart. Tell your people the truth so they’re not confused, but everybody else? They can sit there and be wrong, that’s not your problem.

Also please start documenting everything because that wasn’t just messy, that was calculated. If she keeps going, you might really have a case.

And don’t respond to her at all. Let her keep talking and looking stupid by herself. The truth is on your side, and when it comes out, she

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