So sick of people not wanting to hang out

In my personal life.... on this app. I'm always the one to try and make plans. I just feel like what is so annoying and weird about me that nobody wants to spend time with me. This is taking me back to high school 🤣😭 "Just let me know when! Oh, no that day doesn't work for me. And I don't have any suggestions on when exactly would.... no, 2 weeks is too far out for me to know if I'll be 'feeling social'... let's reconnect in a month and see!" šŸ™„ I want to go OFF on them lol
Since the baby came it's all crickets???? This shii is not good for my PPD. I guess I'll just hang out alone with my baby for the 387th day in a row while u sit and watch trash TV again. Does nobody want to cultivate actual relationships anymore???? I guess just not with me lol.

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My ā€œbest friendā€ and sister have been distant since I had the baby. Now I just feel like my son and myself are too much of an inconvenience to be friends with I guess. I keep telling myself the right people will come along eventually.

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Same here. No connections at all. Just me and baby.

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I definitely feel like I’m in the same boat. Even having friends with kids it’s like pulling teeth. Trying to get someone to hang out or come over! Like I don’t even care what we do I just want girl time! I struggle with feeling like maybe it’s me and no one wants to hangout with me but idk but i definitely get it!

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Looking to make new friends, no matter where you are! Being at home all the time with just a tiny person for company can be lonely so I’m reaching out to see if anyone is out there in the same position - I am also a really good listener so if you need to rant then I’m here! šŸ‘‹šŸ¼šŸ¤

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Deleting app

I’m so ready to delete this app. I don’t think people actually want to gain friendships. I’ve only had little conversations and that’s it. What a bummer šŸ˜’

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Is it appropriate to give a card for Eid?

My neighbour has been fasting for Ramadan and I wondered if it would be appropriate to give a card for Eid. He gave us a Christmas card and I want to return the favour.

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friends !!

26 with a 9 month old boy!

lf text buddies, friends 🫶

long distance or in the uk, idm!

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Socialising

I’m due on July 9th, and lately I just don’t feel like myself socially. Before pregnancy, I loved seeing my friends, making plans, going out it used to genuinely excite me. But now… I just don’t have the energy or desire for it.

All I seem to want is to stay at home, be with my partner, and keep things really low-key. I’ve been cancelling plans a lot, and it’s starting to make me feel like a bad friend or like I’m being selfish. I do love my friends, nothing has changed in that sense I just don’t feel up to socialising at all.

I’m also just so exhausted all the time, and part of me worries I’m isolating myself or that something’s wrong with me.

Has anyone else felt like this during pregnancy? Is this normal? I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s gone through something similar šŸ¤

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What do I do if I can’t go back to work

I’m actually doing my first week back at work and it’s already a nightmare. I live in wales so don’t get any free childcare. I feel like I actually can’t go back to work. It’s too expensive to put both my kids in nursery and I currently have mine and my partners mums doing a day each of childminding.
Both parents are already facing challenges doing their day due to both having their own business and personal issues.

If I quit my job, could I go on UC? My partner just has a standard job.
Anyone else experiencing this?

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