Not sure how to feel

So idk really how to feel. I'm five months pregnant and my and my bd aren't together I feel he's not really being honest with me about his other bm. All I want is for him to be honest if they messing around again because I'm not tryna put energy into someone when they putting time and effort into someone else. He has me blocked on tiktok and he says they barely talk anymore but he's always "❤️" her videos where all she's doing is shaking her ass and he calls her gorgeous. We are forced to live together RN and us being around each other all the time keeps bringing up feelings. I just wish he'd be honest with me. I'm tired of him being all over her when he's got a baby otw. He's nonchalant towards me and doesn't even wanna help me prepare for the baby. I need advice

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I’m gonna be real with you your feelings aren’t confusion, it’s your intuition picking up on his behavior. If he’s liking her videos, calling her gorgeous, and even has you blocked, that’s not someone being honest or fully invested in you, especially while you’re pregnant. His actions already show he’s still entertaining her and not prioritizing you or the baby, and you don’t deserve to feel like you’re competing with another woman during a time you should feel supported and at peace. Instead of waiting for him to admit it, move based on what he’s showing you start protecting your energy, emotionally detach, set boundaries even while living together, and focus on yourself and your baby, because if he truly wanted to step up, he would, and you shouldn’t have to hold onto something that isn’t solid.

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