Is this normal
Letās say youāre at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. Theyāre very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
Theyāre sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasnāt going to eat it, and they didnāt ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?
Are these men ok?
I get so sad seeing all the posts on here daily about women dealing with partners who are treating them horribly. I know it seems over represented because those of us with great partners donāt need to write posts asking for help, but I really hope most of us donāt have these kinds of men in our lives!
I tell my husband about these posts I see sometimes and heās even shocked by some of the things these guys say/do.
Nobodyās perfect, and every relationship takes work. And becoming parents is a stress test unlike any other for sure, but seeing how many women get stuck in these relationships with men who arenāt interested in being better is so so sadš
But is/was your partner helpful, loving, and supportive during your pregnancy/PP/etc? Was he a wonderful person but changed for the worst after becoming a parent? Has he put effort into becoming the partner you need him to be, even if he struggles?