Hi everyone I have a 8 month old little girl and I am 18 I am definitely not ready for a second baby yet and I am not financially ready either but I just want to know your opinions on when I should start trying for a second baby me and my partner are thinking around 5 years from now but is that age gap to big ??
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Not at all, as long as you’re ready.

Whatever you feeel xxx
We fell pregnant woth second when my first was 18 months , was ttc for 4 months xxx
Love the age gap

It’s honestly whenever you want. There’s no perfect time really. My first turned three last week and I’m due to have my second at the end of June. I’m 23 and my partner is 25 x
So I caught pregnant 6th May’, sadly I miscarried at 9 weeks, I’ve done a test this morning and I can see that it’s positive but I really don’t want to get my hopes up.

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I’m wondering if anyone has experienced secondary infertility.
We have a daughter who is now 4 years old. When she was 2, we started trying for a second baby so we could complete our family before I focused on my degree.
We’ve been trying for 2 years now without success. I’ve used ovulation apps, tracked my cycle, monitored ovulation, and tried everything I can think of to conceive, but nothing has happened.
I’m feeling stressed and scared that I might not be able to have any more children. We’re a big family, and it makes me sad for my daughter. Sometimes she says, “Mummy, can I have a sister?” and it honestly breaks my heart.
I’m sharing this in case anyone else is going through something similar. ❤️❤️
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According to my ovulation strips I had already peaked - but slowly it’s going back up again…?
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Hi all,
I need some help please. I found out i was pregnant (actively trying) on tuesday 15th with a faint positive on two tests.
I tested again on 16th, two faint positives.
On 17th the line got fainter on the clear blue and very faint on the amazon ones i had bought.
Today i checked and one there is no line. The other (clear blue) still has a faint line.
Am i to presume i am having a chemical pregnancy? I am unsure what happens or what i do. I have spoken to my gp who said i need to wait as i would only be 5 weeks but surely if the pregnancy was developing the line would get brighter? Also i have no symptoms apart from feeling sick. With my first i had a lot of symptoms. I have had some mild cramping. No bleeding. Any thoughts would be much appreciated.
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Am I getting disappointed….
I asked my partner to pick me up a digital on his way home…
Picture taken within 5 minute timeframe
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11 and 12 days post 5 day fresh transfer. There is slight progression. I'll do a digital tomorrow
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