Pregnant and jealous

Today I’ve had to leave my month birth group because I’m honestly jealous of all the mums complaining about 3rd trimester being hard.
This isn’t my first pregnancy so I know where they’re coming from however this multiples pregnancy is a whole new level to a singleton pregnancy so it’s making my both angry and jealous of the mums that are only now starting to struggle with the 3rd trimester symptoms.
My whole 2nd trimester has been all 1st and 3rd trimester symptoms together and my 3rd trimester is honestly unbearable , I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve told my midwife I cannot do this anymore.

Has anyone else felt like this?

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I get this 100%. I have a cousin who is pregnant with one baby, she is 6 weeks ahead of me term wise and everytime I speak to her she talks about how easy her pregnancy has been, she’s literally glowing when I see her, she’s out partying and going on holidays, mean while I’ve been struggling with the worst back and pelvic pain since 10 weeks. My journey compared to hers is horrid, and I’m dreading the third trimester. Im so happy for her because I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone, but I am jealous of the way she has enjoyed her pregnancy and I’m unable to enjoy mine the same way, but I can never openly admit this to anyone around me 🫠

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Never had a CO2 check at midwife appts

Is this normal? Or is my midwife seriously lacking? She also hasn’t checked my weight since my 20 week appointment or maybe even earlier which I find really strange.

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Dilation

Went into labor and delivery today to find out that I’m 1cm dilated any other moms going through this rn I’m so ready to have my baby boy even tho I’m 37 weeks

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Nipt test

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At the hospital!

34 weeks and 4 days

Water broke while I was in bed at 11pm
Now I am here
Taking steroids in the butt
And misoprostol

Due date was supposed to be May 3
Baby will probably have to stay in the nicu
Wish us luck

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I’m literally disgusted with how much anxiety this test has brought me. If there is something wrong with it just return it already Jesus Christ.

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