No one told me pregnancy would feel this lonely…

I’m 21 and currently 21weeks pregnant. It was a big shock finding out as I was told I couldn’t have kids due to pcos and not ovulating.

I was always the loud and out going party girl but now everything’s changed…. My friends have stopped inviting me out as I guess it’s not that much fun hanging out with a pregnant girl and even when I have managed to make some plans with a couple friends I’m so anxious they’ll find me boring now that I back out.

My partner works 5days a week morning till late evening and on his days of he wants to see his friends sometimes which obviously I want as it’s good he’s keeping his social life but I’m also kind of jealous. Is anyone else feeling like this ? I just feel like I’m not experiencing the magical pregnancy everyone describes….

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Me and my man had an explosive argument last night. Usually when we argue I’m the one that likes to resolve it straight away and he’s the one that needs time. That being said I like him to “grovel” a little. I hate that I’m wired like this 🫠 our baby is 12 weeks old and we have had unprotected sex… reckless I know but that’s a whole different story about contraception. Anyways I voiced that I have missed my period. Which I do have slight concern about but not majorly. Anyways, he woke up not wanting to speak to me, last night I tried to cuddle him to sleep he wouldn’t have any of it so I woke up fuming. I got an old positive pregnancy picture of mine and sent it to him. He’s now going out of his mind…. Wtf is wrong with me

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Just thought I’d share… 😅

So I’ve got emetophobia and I’m a cleaner and a few weeks ago I was cleaning someone’s toilet with the toilet brush and my worst nightmare came true. I accidentally splashed a bit of toilet water onto my lips and in that moment I just knew I was going to get sick because I’ve basically got faeces and dirty water on my mouth 👄🙃 surprise surprise, 36 hours later I came down with a sickness bug, THE WORST one I have ever had in my entire life, because I’m such a strong emetophobe, I physically could not be sick, was dry heaving for about 5 hours and going through the motions of being sick but my brain didn’t let it come out lol, but boy did it come out the other end and baddd. Thought I was gonna have to go to hospital to get IV fluids, my partner had to come home from work because I was barely conscious so yeah that was a great experience. Safe to say, I’ve not used a single toilet brush since, thinking about it it’s the most disgusting thing ever as it’s literally full of shit and I’ve always been scared it would splash in my face. If you got this far, thanks for reading and sorry for being gross 🤣🤣

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Bestie?

Anyone need a bestie? I know I do! 😆 I have friends but don’t have any mum friends. Craving that common ground but also want someone where we can chat about all sorts of things and have a laugh! Any takers?

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Nah I’m scared to meet anybody else on this app!

If yall have any BD issues, Please don’t get me involved! I don’t want no parts of yall situation at all! leave me out of it! I won’t say too much but this girl I met off this app had me do something really crazy which involved her situation with her BD and I fear it will turn back on me because I know God was not happy about it. I’m feeling very Off about this and now she’s not answering her phone. After this, I’m deleting and won’t be returning! Yall females on this app is SCARY!

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Sahms did you go back to work when all your kids were in kindergarten?

I don’t need to work but I don’t even know who would hire me when I would need to quit every summer.

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