Need advice asap!

So I’m 35 weeks and thinking of switching to a midwife. This is mostly because I want to give birth at a different hospital. The hospital I’m with now has a higher c-section rate and are more likely to use interventions and inductions. I like my OB but I do not want a c-section and I don’t want to be induced. I’m just worried about switching so late and close to my due date. Idk what to do 😭

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I’m fucked

Me and my man had an explosive argument last night. Usually when we argue I’m the one that likes to resolve it straight away and he’s the one that needs time. That being said I like him to “grovel” a little. I hate that I’m wired like this 🫠 our baby is 12 weeks old and we have had unprotected sex… reckless I know but that’s a whole different story about contraception. Anyways I voiced that I have missed my period. Which I do have slight concern about but not majorly. Anyways, he woke up not wanting to speak to me, last night I tried to cuddle him to sleep he wouldn’t have any of it so I woke up fuming. I got an old positive pregnancy picture of mine and sent it to him. He’s now going out of his mind…. Wtf is wrong with me

Just thought I’d share… 😅

So I’ve got emetophobia and I’m a cleaner and a few weeks ago I was cleaning someone’s toilet with the toilet brush and my worst nightmare came true. I accidentally splashed a bit of toilet water onto my lips and in that moment I just knew I was going to get sick because I’ve basically got faeces and dirty water on my mouth 👄🙃 surprise surprise, 36 hours later I came down with a sickness bug, THE WORST one I have ever had in my entire life, because I’m such a strong emetophobe, I physically could not be sick, was dry heaving for about 5 hours and going through the motions of being sick but my brain didn’t let it come out lol, but boy did it come out the other end and baddd. Thought I was gonna have to go to hospital to get IV fluids, my partner had to come home from work because I was barely conscious so yeah that was a great experience. Safe to say, I’ve not used a single toilet brush since, thinking about it it’s the most disgusting thing ever as it’s literally full of shit and I’ve always been scared it would splash in my face. If you got this far, thanks for reading and sorry for being gross 🤣🤣

SEX AFTER BIRTH 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

IM DUE APRIL SIX AND THIS MF ALREADY PICKING OUT CONDOMS!!
BTW HES ALREADY FUCKING OTHER WOMEN WE ARE POLY SO I DIDN'T THINK ABOUT SEX AFTER BIRTH
I PLAN ON DOING A VAGINAL BIRTH AND HE WAS LIKE WELL MY OTHER BABY MOMS DIDN'T TAKE LONG TO HEAL🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️
IM LIKE IM NOT RISKING IT JUST CAUSE YOU WANT TO. HE GOT UPSET WITH ME CAUSE IM LIKE WE WON'T BE DOING ANYTHING FOR A WHILE. TBH NOW I JUST DON'T WANT HIM TOUCHING ME IN GENERAL CAUSE HE ISN'T WORRIED ABOUT MY HEALTH MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY JUST HIS 1MIN NUT!!
LIKE IM SO OVER IT.

Can you orgasm vaginally (through penetration only)?

Just trying to see how many women are actually capable of reaching an orgasm through sex/penetration alone, WITHOUT clitoral stimulation

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