One on one time with each child

Well how old are they? Because if they go to school then I think keeping them home on their birthday and doing whatever they want to do that day is a good core memory for all of them. And then if they have their own sports that you attend, or maybe each night spend 5 minutes before bed asking them about their day and what they want to do tomorrow?

One on one time is super important, that’s when I’ve gotten to learn about my children the best tbh. Usually I put one in their room or let him play in our play room. He’ll a snack and his favorite toys and I’ll hang out with his twin and then we switch. Or sometimes my mom or spouse will take one twin out and spend time with him while I do something with the other.

We do weekends where we do "dates" with our kids. Dad takes one daughter and I take the other, then another time we switch kids. When my third is born I figured we will do the same but do something at home while one of us takes the time to spend with a girl alone, typically dad.

We started a weekend rotation where they get to stay up a little late with us and pick to do something

When we do our nightly routine we hang out as a family but then we split up and we spend 1:1 with each child. My husband and I take turns each night with each kid while the other parent is with the other ones.

Every Saturday morning my husband takes one boy to his dad’s for a few hours in the morning and the other stays home with we. We alternate which one goes every week. At home we usually walk to the park or do a craft project together.