I just really want to see my baby now, obviously I want her to be as healthy as she can be but I’m really struggling with pregnancy from the start and especially now we aren’t having scans then I feel disconnected from her and I just want to see her now and have her in the flesh rather than just a photo on a screen.
I just don’t know if I’m alone in this feeling and I just want to talk to people about it. Especially with being a first time mum.
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No im with you on this and im 27 weeks today.

We went for a 4D scan today and it’s made such a difference we felt the same x

Amber you are not alone it makes sense on why you feel this way. What helped me in my experience is living in the Now. The past is done the future hasn’t come and all we have is this present moment. She’s with you now, that connection is there and will be there on the other side. She has such a loving Mamma. Embrace the journey. I invite you to Appreciate the present of this presence with her.

What helped me when I was pregnant was feeling when she would kick. Like what music and what food. They have preferences by this age so you’ll begin to see what things she or he likes