Sleep

Hi everyone. My baby girl is nearly 7 weeks old and loves to cuddle. This means she really doesn’t like to be put down and whether it’s in her next to me bed, play mat or bouncer chair we only get a maximum of 10-20 mins before she cries. She gets so upset bless her. At night she will go a 1.5-2.5 hours in between feeds if we let her sleep on us. Does anyone have any advice for how we can help her settle in her next to me bed at night for a bit longer? I’m exhausted from a vicious cycle of putting her down, comforting /feeding her after she gets so upset, burping and trying all over again all night. Thank you! ❤️

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We found baby would not settle in the next to me as it was too big. Bought a Moses basket as it’s smaller and she preferred it. Used it for a few weeks and she now settles in the next to me. Moved the Moses basket downstairs so it doesn’t go to waste.

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Our first struggled for the first few weeks with going in his next to me. Putting a hot water bottle in the cot for 30 minutes before putting him down really helped (just make sure it isn’t too hot when you come to pop baby down)

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