So I’m basically going back and forth on doing something intimate and small with immediate family. Or something a little bigger. Because in all honestly my baby will be too small to even remember😭
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I think for her first it will be big , that just seems to be the tradition but afterwards it will be immediate family and maybe 1/2 family friends.
For me it’s not whether she remembers it’s about who actually comes & sadly my side never travels so I don’t see the point but my husband’s family and friends are just looking for an excuse to get together .

No friends came. Only 3 family members

if we lived near family we would go all out with cousins and stuff and have a big party, but everyone is too far away. For my first child my parents came to visit and we did a small family party (aka the four of us fed her a little angel food cake and took a bunch of photos) so we were doing something similar for my second this month. Although this time his older sister will be excited to decorate and have a birthday theme lol. But in reality keeping it very small.