Pls don’t judge me. FTM feeling a little anxious about baby. I’ll loose my old life, me time and time with my husband. While I really want to hold me my baby, some thoughts makes me anxious and i never felt these my entire pregnancy. I hope it’s the harmones doing.
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This is completely normal my daughter is 2&1/2 and I still get feelings like this. It’s okay xx

Try and think of it as a phase
You’ll get some things back as baby gets a little older. Once kids start having a consistent bedtime you’ll get some adult/me-time after that. Mine go to their rooms after bathtime (which is 6pm). Also when they start to be able to play independently
Also I find returning to work helps me feel like “me” instead of only mum as well