Just found out I’m pregnant probably 4-5 weeks. I had a miscarriage 2 months ago and I’m nervous about this pregnancy. I’m sure everything will be fine but you just never know.

For people who have gone through a miscarriage and had a healthy pregnancy after does this feeling fade or did it last the whole pregnancy?

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I had 4 losses last year and I’m now 31 weeks. I’ve never stopped worrying tbf. Unfortunately I just think pregnancy after loss is a totally different experience 😣

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It doesn’t truly go away. But it has “faded” the farther along I get. I’m 35weeks. I do have bad dreams sometimes but I know that’s my subconscious working through and processing everything

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I had 3 miscarriages (2 first trimester, 1 second trimester) prior to having my son. That feeling faded for me around 24 weeks, I felt much better after we reached viability. That being said I had done A LOT of therapy prior to my successful pregnancy so I do believe that played a big role.

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I have had 3 miscarriages and the fear was there the whole way. It did get a little easier once I hit the 2nd trimester, but the fear was there for me till birth. I feel like some people it can fade, and others it doesn't. I hope for you (or anyone else that has been through a miscarriage) that is does fade.

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I’ve had 8 miscarriages, one being pretty much exactly a month before this pregnancy I’m now almost 33 weeks and the worrying never stops but it does definitely get easier the further along you get

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I had a loss and then got pregnant the cycle after and I'm now 24 weeks. I'm definitely less anxious now than at the beginning, but everytime I have a scan I'm preparing for it to be bad. Which is unfortunate since I am seeing MFM and get a scan every appointment. But baby boy is doing well and measuring right on track.

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For me once I had the 12 week scan I felt a little better, I felt baby move at 14 weeks (so lucky!) and then after 20 week scan I felt better again, it's just the little stages that help calm your mind, each milestone is a breath that's easier to take.

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We first started trying last May and immediately got pregnant but it was a chemical pregnancy and I miscarried within a week or two of finding out. I had a weird feeling my first pregnancy would fail, and that it would be easy afterwards.

That ended up being true because I got pregnant on my next cycle in June and have a one month old today!

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So it lasted for me but I had a ROUGH pregnancy, I personally wouldn't call it a healthy one

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I have had two miscarriages followed by two term pregnancies. I feel like things did get better with every follow up appt that I was reassured things were progressing but would soon after worry again. Unfortunately it’s normal to worry and I don’t have any good tips or tricks to ease the worry. Pregnancy / motherhood is tough.

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I had a surprise pregnancy right after a miscarriage.
Once I found out I was pregnant the anxiety stayed until he was born. It faded a bit in the last trimester but i refused to let myself believe the pregnancy would work out until he was here it was a mental block I couldn’t get past

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Just found out I’m pregnant probably 4-5 weeks. I had a miscarriage 2 months ago and I’m nervous about this pregnancy. I’m sure everything will be fine but you just never know.

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