Gifts not on registry

You specifically sent your registry out & still got something completely not on your registry & you don’t like it at all, do you ask that person for the receipt or just resell/gift it to someone else? I think it’s actually ridiculous to not buy off someone’s registry that they worked so hard on & you just blatantly get what “you” wanted…

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Personally, the only people who were invited to my baby shower were close friends and family that I can say whatever I need to. So if they got me a gift that wasn’t on my registry or something that I didn’t ask, I flat out tell them “can I have the receipt or just return it, I do not want or need it”

In my opinion I would see if you can figure out where it's from, some stores will give you store credit and take it back. I have found Google Image search helps with this. Or resell/gift, but keep in mind the person may ask how you liked or used the gift. Do you mind me asking what the gift was?

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I very much agree with how annoying this is. I just google what big store (Walmart/target/sams/costco) sells that item and return it saying got as a gift and don’t have a receipt and I’m ok with store credit and usually that works! Then I can use the giftcard for something I need.

I put a comment when I sent mine out saying we please ask you not buy this and if you decide to not buy from it the theme is this and if it’s not what we want or like that we will not dress our daughter in it

That can be so annoying! I made a registry & haven’t even sent it out and honestly don’t plan too. I canceled my baby shower & just rather get everything on my own (besides the stuff my close close family gets me) I don’t have time to be waiting on nobody.

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Quick PSA

Don’t be a fool like me! Before you run upstairs to have a quickie with your husband make sure your baby monitor receiver is turned off so the whole rest of your house doesn’t hear ur shenanigans. 🫠🫠🫠

Sleep!!

Our little girl at 10 weeks just slept from 730pm to 430am. She fell asleep on her dad and in bringing her upstairs at 10pm she was still fast asleep so decided as she was fed just before that to leave her until she stirs. She’s usually a good sleeper on the first stint of the night with atleast 6/7 hours but tonight she’s gone 9! Besides a little leakage as I’m exclusively breastfeeding I have no concerns. Would this one off affect my milk supply? For context when she woke she fed for 10 mins which is average for her and was content/ didn’t seem to be struggling.

Bedtime Advice Please

Hi,
Im a first time mum to a 6 week old. I’ve seen a lot of people say their baby sleeps longer stretches than mine. Since she was born, in the evening we’ve put her down in her Moses basket in the living room until me and my partner go upstairs to bed. She’s waking up 3 times in the night. Would she be better at sleeping if I put her down in the next to me upstairs earlier in evening with baby monitor and get her in more of a routine every night?
I don’t know if I’m being stupid but I think maybe if she’s in more of a set routine sooner rather than later it would be best?

Is my friend just spoiled or is she a terrible mother

I know that sounds harsh. But one of my best friends has changed since she married her husband who has money..

Shes due in May, doesnt seem excited about the baby at all. Talks about how she would never get pregnant again and would use a surrogate even tho shes had 0 real issues .. and surrogacy is hardly ethical. Regardless i dont judge it because its her choice.. now its added in with this other stuff im feeling otherwise.

She has a nanny, which i think is fine. We all deserve help! But now i found out the baby is going to be sleeping on an entirely different floor. IN THE NANNIES ROOM in a bassinet. The nanny will be doing all the “work” She says she never wants to hear the baby cry, she said she would never even let the baby in the bed to nurse… she’s wealthy beyond belief. Has everything she could want. I thought she would take motherhood seriously. Im not saying we all should struggle but this is hard for me to understand.. im not sure if it’s pregnancy hormones but shes acting like she doesnt even care about this child and only wants to do the “fun” stuff. Doesnt want to do diapers, treating this baby like its not a whole person. Says she will sleep train them as soon as she can and she doesnt give a f*** if the baby is crying for hours .. like it just does not seem to bother her? In hoping that things change when she her son.

Im struggling to stay close with her because i feel like shes now border-lining on neglect ? Am i wrong? Is this not crazy behaviour? And mind u this isnt the half of it !

Baby not sleeping

Baby is 4 weeks old, last night he didn't sleep for literally one second unless he was on one of us. Clean nappy, fed more than enough (formula), burped well, made sure he was in deep sleep before transferring to next to me... awake within seconds. All day today he has been awake but not crying / fussy, just awake. And now the same as last night, awake and crying as soon as I put him down. I'm exhausted! What is going on?!

Screaming 😭

I’m exhausted!! My little girl turned 1 a few weeks ago and has somehow turned into a fully blown toddler. Definitely enjoying the cute moments and seeing her personality flourish, but my gosh, she has somehow picked up the habit of screaming and it is honestly exhausting. It’s not even a little scream, it’s fully blown high pitched screaming (both at home and out in public). If there’s something she wants - usually food - or doesn’t want, she’ll scream. Or if she’s overtired. Or sometimes seems like just for the sake of it 🤦🏻‍♀️

I really don’t want it to become a habit that’s impossible to break. Is it just my child? Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions that may help?